‘In Your Prime, Older, Wiser, Happier’

Those of you who don’t venture past The Times Online paywall won’t have seen Anne Ashworth’s review of fellow columnist India Knight‘s new book, which she describes as ‘a route map for the midlifer woman’.

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The book attempts to provide long overdue guidance for middle-aged women – a customer segment that has been largely overlooked by an industry which is too busy bestowing advice on their daughters.  As Ashworth says, it is positively perverse that this advice dries up just when it’s needed the most.

The breadth of this advice is ambitious, covering health, exercise, beauty, families,  menopause – and clothing.   The only missing element, in Ashworth’s opinion, is financial guidance on pensions, savings, etc.

I have downloaded a copy and will report back in due course!

The Fall

I can’t wait – DSI Stella Gibson is back!  (Thursday, 9pm on BBC2.)  Maybe we’ll finally solve the big howdunnit of Season One: how did she get all those silk shirts into that tiny suitcase?

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I’m assuming that you have a silk shirt or two?  If not, the situation needs remedying.  No other garment says ‘woman-to-reckon-with’ quite like a silk shirt: sensuous, tactile, feminine, structured, luxurious.  Tantalising and a wee bit intimidating at the same time, and even better with a subtle hint of décolletage as demonstrated by Gillian Anderson who is just gorgeous at 46!  Great hair, great figure, great wardrobe, great role.

Season One of The Fall inspired me to re-visit my makeup, with a consultation on ‘smoky eyes’ at my local Bobbi Brown counter.

In anticipation of Season Two, here is my tribute to DSI Stella Gibson – in the form of a selection of some of the best silk shirts on the market at the moment.  Get them now, before the Gibson effect kicks in again.

First of all the budget options:

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Top left: And Other Stories, top right: And Other Stories

Bottom left: ASOS, bottom right: Zara

There are usually bargains galore at The Outnet, below:

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And if your budget is a bit more police commissioner than police constable:

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Top left: Net a Porter has pages of silk blouses, top right: Pinstripeandpearls, bottom left: Pure 

The Festive Season

Yes I know it’s tastelessly early.

I did think of playing journalistic chicken and waiting for someone else to mention it first, but one thing that growing older teaches you is that preparation is what it’s all about.  (Yes I know, there’s inspiration and perspiration too…)

Only eight weeks from now we’ll be welcoming 2015, and between now and then you’re going to have to scrub up and Go Out several times.  Some of my wish-list garments are already thin on the ground and, while it’s tempting to try to save some money by holding my nerve and waiting for the Pre-Christmas Sales, I know that by the time discounted product becomes an option I’ll be otherwise engaged, finding last-minute presents, and shopping for food.

So here’s my Fantasy Festive Fashion League 2014.

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I do like a bit of lamé, and this gold skirt from Net-a-Porter is beautiful – a real talking point.  Styled here with a black silk shirt and accessories, the skirt is clearly the HERO piece in this ensemble (see HIERARCHY on the RULES page for more on this subject).

This skirt from Coast is a mid-market alternative:

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It works well with this good value silk shirt from And Other Stories, where you will also find plain, button-front silk shirts in black.

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If you prefer to keep the focus up top, then Hobbs has another lamé option

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… which would look great teamed with a fitted and flared maxi skirt, for example this from Coast:

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Alternatively, you could opt for palazzo pants like these bargain chiffon pants from Marks and Spencer:

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These are the overall winners of this post.  Made from a double layer of synthetic chiffon (opaque through the body but slightly diaphanous at the margins), they are cut well so that they lie flat, and are sensuous and fluid in movement.  At £35 you really can’t go wrong.  They don’t look great in the video – or in the photos! – as they are a bit short for the model, but they are available in longer lengths.  I’d wear them with flats to ensure generous length and a little bit of drape.

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Spend your savings on a fat belt to cinch the waist – for example this beautiful, minimal piece from Sportmax:

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Hierarchy

As you know, I try to take a scientific approach to dressing, employing the Design Principles (see Rules page) when combining elements to create an outfit.  This festive season I am putting the spotlight on the principle of HIERARCHY.

The rule of HIERARCHY says that the parts of an outfit should vary in dominance; the ‘hero’ (most important) item should be differentiated from the subservient (secondary and supporting) pieces.

The supporting pieces help your hero item to stand out and shine more brightly in contrast.  And the result is DRAMA.

Malene Birger sequin skirt

 

Here’s the Net-a-Porter image that inspired this thought.  So inspired me, I have to confess, that this quite incredible skirt by Malene Birger is already hanging in my wardrobe.

My ankles aren’t my strongest feature (the Editor says I’m only perfect from the knees up) so I’ll be combining the skirt with last season’s Zanotti suede boots

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as well as a v-neck cashmere sweater (not unlike the one pictured).

Net-a-Porter’s stylist has left their model (in the picture above) otherwise unadorned.  Nothing else is permitted to compete with that glorious skirt.  I’ll allow myself a little bit of Elsa Peretti for Tiffany,

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or some Georg Jensen.  White metal, obviously, to sit quietly with the cool grey hues.

The star in this production is the skirt; the best supporting award is shared by the jumper and the boots.  They both have soft matt surfaces that provide the perfect background texture for the glitter of the sparkly sequins.

Repetition, repetition, repetition…

Today I’m excited about the Design Principle REPETITION. The reason is that I’ve found a great combination that demonstrates how the ‘whole is greater than the sum of the parts’.

Take a look at these Cos earrings (shown front, back and side)

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And imagine wearing them with this Marks and Spencer coat:

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They are nice earrings (Cos sells minimalist jewellery with great impact), and the coat is nice too… but when you put them together you’ll look like a really well-designed package!

It’s about creating a rhythm to your appearance: evidence of a sophisticated intelligence at play.

So, if you have a garment with an original design detail, try to combine this with other elements that repeat or reference that detail. In this case the close proximity of the two parts (by which I mean that your ears are near your neck!) and the distinct roles/provenance of the parts, reinforces the visual game you are playing.

Careless abandon can be a great look if executed with flair, but using Design Principles to style your wardrobe is generally the best strategy if you are a bit older. A young woman who is too prescriptively dressed can appear a bit staid, whereas for you and me this approach to assembling outfits results in a look that is really together and impressive – the sophisticated woman raised up to her full height!

A caveat: it is really important not to start adding in other bits of jewellery. The clear pattern of repetition will be diluted by the introduction of other items not in the same vein. Keep it simple; keep the focus is on our ‘trick’.

Making Good Better…

Which business do you wish you had founded?  Google?  Facebook?  Right now I’d probably plump for Rococco Chocolates.  But close to the top of my list you will always find The White Company: I love everything that Chrissie Rucker sells.

And now she has made good better by hiving off the most simple, classic items of clothing into a style edit entitled General Store.

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The range includes jeans, cashmere, and the elegant white shirt (£70) shown above. All items are absolute classics, great staples.  That’s not to say that the main range doesn’t include classics, but this edit does have particular timeless appeal.

On the subject of white shirts, I had great success last year with this multipack from Marks and Spencer

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These shirts are from the men’s range, and you need to try them on in store to be sure of the fit (I bought the smallest collar size) but at £30 for 3 you can’t really go wrong!

What is your approach to ‘boyfriend’ dressing?  Do you have any menswear recommendations for the girls?

 

 

Renaissance Trainers

Do you remember back in January when Karl Lagerfeld sent Cara Delevigne down the catwalk in a Chanel wedding dress and trainers?

from www.ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com

In my opinion this was the ultimate stamp of approval for the trainer’s elevation from gym to boardroom.  All summer we have been tempted by bold, bright colour from New Balance, Nike, etc. – and if the Nike store I visited in Edinburgh had had a 9.5 (that’s ‘Nike’ for UK7) in the purple/green I fancied, I might be wearing them as I type.  But, now I can see that the fates conspired to keep my pennies safe for what really must be the ultimate shoe…here she is (and yes, I think that she is a girl) Nike Air Max Thea in black.  Comfortable, stylish, smart, sharp – what more could you ask for?  I seem to be gravitating to greys and black at the moment, and this shoe is great with smart black slacks or skinny jeans.

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Out of respect for convention – don’t forget I am a sheep – I’ve never worn trainers to a wedding or funeral, but I do wear them to work regularly and I see no reason not to wear these to all but the smartest events I might have to attend.  Definitely not mutton if styled as part of a monochromatic and minimalistic outfit – in fact with my mum’s lovely silver hair, now there’s a thought!

Culottes are having a moment, aren’t they!

InnerMutton likes culottes, both practical and smart they fit nicely into our style uniform, and now they are trendy too.

I particularly like this sharply tailored pair from Marni via Net a Porter

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obviously high-quality cloth and a great cut that creates a strong, sculptural profile.  And teamed with some chunky loafers or brogues (a story for another day!), or high courts for evening wear, these are a classic item to add to your winter wardrobe.

Sadly I don’t have a Marni budget, nor can I stretch to Acne Studios’ version…

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which at £400 (and also via Net-A-Porter) are only a tad cheaper, so I’ve been on the hunt for something similar.

Much of what is on the market is shorter – around the knee – and to my eye looks a bit like an ill-fitting summer skirt.  I was temporarily diverted by leatherette…but then I remembered this is InnerMutton and not InnerGestapo, so I moved along.

So, for now I am sticking with this pair from Topshop…topshop

They don’t have quite the same stiff A-line shape but at £40 they are one tenth of the price of the next nearest contender.  They are from the Tall range hence the extra length in the leg.  And as with all product presented here, something I’d be happy to send my granny out in!

I think that there will be more to say on this subject as ‘culotte’ searches are turning up more and more product daily – so watch this space.